Where my Memories lies

The events of the last few weeks have really made me wonder about a lot of things. Like Love and relationships..!! Defining Love is the toughest task on this planet. Different people. Different meanings. Defining a relationship still an easier task. Relationship is a connection made on the basis of trust, love, commitment and endless giving. But when I look at the incidents that take place it makes me wonder, is there anything called as EVERLASTING LOVE OR FOREVER WITH U. Is it easy to trust anyone ?? Why can’t we do so ?? Didn’t our elders trust each other ?? Why was it easier in their time and what happened now ?? When asked this question people start the blame game, men say its women who are bitches, women says nah we are innocent its men who are dogs..!! Therefore leading to an endless argument with no answers. As we have read, heard and watched in the movies all about true love and all those stuff.. Does it really exist in real life ?? We all say we want love like that, then why don’t we all make an effort to do so. Why do we hurt each other. WHY ? Don’t we once put ourselves in the other person's shoe and think how much it hurts. Don’t we even realise how much heartache it would cause. How afraid we'll feel when trusting anybody….men or women, heart is a heart the pain is piercing..! People say life is changing we need to think about our carriers and all that bullshit. Well according to me it's a bunch of bullshit. Love is love people…… 

How can you leave somebody alone and devastated to make your life ?? What do you all thinks that the other person won't understand your goals and ambition? Well in my opinion he/she will, coz love is all about understanding and if they don’t, well then they aren’t worth it !! 

Why is it so difficult to come face to face with the truth, why do youu have to make so many excuses in the name of other things. People say it's the other person who makes it complicated or OH! NOO we can't hurt anyone, they have done alt..Really.. Guys when you are doing so you are hurting ur so called other half more than anything ..!! When people drift apart they say, Oh well !!! u know it was him or her. The distance came in between us or well they went with someone else. Ahh we fell out of love..!! CRAPPPPPPPP again huh..!! How can anythin come in between people when you love one another ?? Excuse is well we want to enjoy and not stagnate. Guys enjoying doesn't mean humping anyone you see, enjoying means reliving urselves from stress. There are lots other ways of doin so..!!! Sometimes we let litlle arguments come in between us and we decide we have to leave the person.. Why ?? Why we do so ?? Don’t we fight with our friends or parents or siblings, do we leave them ?? Than why is this person special to you. More special than anyone when you can patch up with your parents and peers why not that someone special.. Aren’t they supposed to be closer to us than anyone!! Another thing most people belive what their friends or anyone has to say about their other half.. I ask why.. Do you believe them before asking them out. Huhhhh?? In love, you are just supposed to believe the person you are with not the whole world..!! Coz in a relationship 2 is a company 3 is a crowd.!!! How can you let anyone break the trust you share with someone..!! In the end all I would say is no one is to be blamed. Its we who is to be blamed. Its we who takes people for granted and than blame it on every other thing. Its just US.. 

WE all have to work hard enough so dat the essence and beauty of love doesn't die and the generation next to us gets a GREAT example of love..!!