"I love you , but you don't"
"When I can give you time despite my busy schedule, why can't you?"
How often do you come across such statements from your loved ones? It is disheartening to hear such disturbing lines from our loved ones especially when we strive hard to make them feel special. Due to our daily activities we could not spend quality time with them. Trust me such words from loved ones are not soothing. Love is a special feeling. It is unique and omnipresent, just that we see it with closed eyes.
I remember the time when I fell in love with you, I experienced butterflies fluttering in my stomach and kind of birds dancing around my head. Of course that doesn't happens now, your behavior and attitude changed. Thanks to the hormones which play a vital role in such activities. Trust me, when you are determined to fall in love with someone, you should be ready to invest some time for them. All that I need is to spend some quality time with you. If you can never donate valuable time for your loved one then why fall in love at first place but secondly, of course I know you don't love me. I
hate checking my phone and seeing that you didn’t text me first. I hate
feeling clingy and annoying when I finally decide to text you first. I
hate waiting around for your reply. I hate how I actually look forward
to your reply. I hate pretending not to care by putting my phone on
silent but then caving in and checking 5 minutes later. I hate feeling
like I need you more than you need me.
At the first step, we try our level best to impress our lover. That's the time we should realize and think about how much time and energy we are going to invest to this relationship. Try to revert back equally when it comes to love. We should give an equal amount of love back. Problems are parts and parcel of relationship. Love is like a game where each team tries to give their equal best. It shouldn't be a one sided affair.
Introspect and tell me how it feels to be in love. When you are committed to someone, be focused on small things which would make them happy. Take them for a movie, dinner, a long walk and do things which would make them happy and still smile in their face. Not everyone is lucky enough to fall in love. Be happy that you are amongst those lucky ones to be loved by someone. If you have won someone's heart then be loyal to them and try to live up to their expectation. Spending some time with them will not destroy your business or profit for that matter. Make them feel special. Compliment and Appreciate each other. Will you still be the same if I'll be not around you? You will certainly miss me and wait for my arrival, atleast a little.
No one would unnecessarily harbor special feelings for you. They like some qualities of you and certain things in you impressed them thus making them fall for you. First try to know if you are with the right person whom you are destined to be. In this materialistic money minded world, it might be certain that your partner might be using you as a mere trump card exhibiting fake feelings. A true lover's feeling would be authentic and real. Try to identify how much your partner loves you.
There might be in differences and arguments, but never let your love fade away from your life. Do not dabble in love and exhibit fake feelings for your partner. If you do, then be prepared to see your love vanishing away from your life. You will feel jinxed and cry at your own plight. Sit and talk. Love is sensitive and one should never play with or even try to play with someone's feeling. Talk with them and try to resolve the conflicts. They Say "A true love lives forever". Be honest, share views and talk amiably with each other. This might help you. Care for the one who loves and make them feel you are there for them.
In the back of my mind, somewhere deep in my heart there lies a small area where my heart beats for you.
I hate seeing you so sad it breaks me. Every
time I just want to be there to make everything okay for you. I just
want to see you smile and be able to hold you every moment of everyday.
Certainly I would never feel like this with anyone. I love everything
about you, I'm sorry I get jealous, and scared I'll lose you, but you
don't realize how amazing you are and what a big loss it would be for
me. I get jealous because I want every waking moment with you because
life is short and I don't want to miss a second with you.
I can sit here with you forever. I don't need to touch you. I don't need to hear your voice. I don't even have to look at you. As long as I know that you're here besides me. If I can smell your scent that I've grown to adore more then that of roses, hear you breathe feel your warmth permuting the air around me, I'll be fine..
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